Sunday, May 4, 2014

“Persevering in the Face of Multiple Rejections” by Lisa Regan





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Now I know that it took many, many attempts before finally finding an agent, Jeanie Loiacono, Loiacono Literary Agency, (for a small sample of her rejection letters, see her post here), and even after that, it took a year and a half before Finding Claire Fletcher found a publisher. So, I asked her how she managed to keep plugging away in the face of so many rejections.

 “Persevering in the Face of Multiple Rejections” by Lisa Regan

It took me two books, four and a half years and 238 rejections before I landed my agent. Then I was on submissions for eighteen months. More rejections. Lots of them.

Rejection is hard. After almost six years it became somewhat routine but still, it wasn’t all that fun.

Rejection: painful, but almost all writers have to face it.

When I first researched the road to publication, everything I read indicated that I should expect multiple rejections. At every level. Everywhere I turned there were notices, disclaimers, signs, warnings, cautions saying: YOU WILL BE REJECTED. EXPECT REJECTION. REJECTION LIES AHEAD. It was almost comical. Once I started, it felt a lot like trying to get into a building that has 1,000 doors and only one of them is unlocked. You just keep trying doors until you get to the one that’s not locked.

So what have I learned about rejection? First and foremost: YOU WILL BE REJECTED. EXPECT REJECTION. REJECTION LIES AHEAD. Get ready for it. Your dream is not going to come true overnight. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. I hope you’re the exception, but if you’re not, prepare for rejection.

And when it comes, keep going.

My father has this piece of advice that he repeats all the time:  LET THEM TELL YOU NO.

In other words, try. Put yourself out there. No matter how many rejections you get, no matter how many things go wrong, you never really know what’s going to happen. Never assume that you’re going to be told no, never assume that you’re going to fail. Get out there and try and see what happens.

There was a time during my agent search that I was ready to give up altogether. But I looked at my daughter and realized that I don’t want to set that kind of example for her. I don’t want her to grow up and look at me and see an almost. I don’t want to be someone who almost did something with my writing. Someone who almost pursued my dream.

I don’t want to be an almost.

If you’ve stolen enough time from your hectic life and worked hard enough to write a good book, if you’ve honored the unspoiled part of yourself that still believes in having a dream, then this part of the journey — the agent search, submissions, the rejections — all your hard work will be worth it the day that something amazing happens.  Because amazing things can and do happen.  You just have to be committed enough and maybe even crazy enough to keep going.

So just keep doing it. And keep writing because you get better the more you write. Keep honing your craft. Keep putting yourself out there.

A marathon. Not a sprint. Let ‘em tell you no.

Lisa Regan www.lisaregan.com
Represented by Loiacono Literary Agency www.loiaconoliteraryagency.com
Published by Sapphire Star Publishing www.sapphirestarpublishing.com


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